Hi, I am Hilary Kinavey (she/her/hers). 

My path:

I am a therapist, educator, and facilitator whose work lives at the intersections of body liberation, grief, and sustainable practice. For over two decades, I’ve walked alongside people reclaiming their relationship with their bodies, reshaping their work, and navigating the big questions that surface when we’re asked to care for others inside systems that don’t care for us.

I co-founded the Center for Body Trust, a nationally recognized organization challenging weight-centered paradigms in health and wellness. Through that work, I’ve trained thousands of providers and co-authored Reclaiming Body Trust: A Path to Healing & Liberation, a book about healing, embodiment, and systemic change. These experiences taught me something I return to again and again: real transformation—personal or professional—cannot happen without a foundation of justice, dignity, and sustainability.

My grief work is another part of this foundation. I co-facilitate Tending: Accompaniment at the Gates of Grief, a community-centered space that honors grief as both personal and collective. It’s a reminder that what we’ve lost shapes what we build—and that we need places to name and carry what feels too heavy to hold alone.

EMBER grew out of these truths. I created it for therapists, helpers, and values-driven entrepreneurs who are trying to grow work that matters without losing themselves. So many of us were never taught how to build businesses that reflect our ethics, honor our capacity, and still pay the bills. Instead, we’ve been fed hustle culture advice that doesn’t fit who we are—or the work we do.

EMBER is the antidote to all that: a space where strategy and emotional integrity live side by side. A space to make your work sustainable, to move ideas forward, and to do it without shame or isolation.

Everything I teach is rooted in social justice, emotional honesty, and a belief that building anything—whether a business, a community, or a life—requires us to honor what has been lost and imagine what’s possible.

Your work matters. Let’s make sure it holds you, too.

What sustains me.

  •  My family - partner and two sons, My pets- Arrow, Stripers and Fluffers are so often the glue of family life.
  • My friends and the practice of friendship.
  • Irreverence, laughing, wit. Boundaries. Trusting my yeses and nos.
  • Cooking, baking, eating and cookbooks.
  • My corner of the world, very fortunately, is near a tiny lake where I witness an ecosystem doing what it knows to do. I love cosmology (though I understand very little) and the night sky. 
  • I love seeking words to describe experiences. The people I work with and support. My entrepreneurial life. I also love Astiana tomatoes, a new recipe, family in the kitchen & getting out of dodge. 
  • Making things with others has been the center of my life.

A few more things you should know about me...

  • I am not "type A". Even though, I work with my own perfectionism, expectations and obligations that I have inherited over many generations of striving ancestors. My work will not look perfect or be perfectly consistent. I will deliver, however, everything I say I will. Occasionally you will notice that there will be typos, mistakes, etc. I promise you that this is a sign of my evolving self, not that I do not care.
  • I swear often. If you don’t like that this may not be a supportive or fun program for you.
  • I feel feelings. I react to injustice and I name systemic harms and violence. I am not a blank slate.
  • I am a seasoned supporter, mentor, leader and advocate. You will also feel this in our work together.